MEN: The Do's, Don't's & STOP's of Facebook part 3 of 3

The STOP's 

STOP putting up pictures with your middle finger up. That's the most pointless picture anyone could ever put up. If you wanna stick it to all your "haters" then go up to the upper right hand corner of your page, Click on Account Settings, and click on Deactive your account so that they won't have anything to hate on anymore.

PLEASE STOP talking to women who are in relationships! Now it's one thing if you ask respectfully if they're still in a relationship. But stop bugging them if they are clearly in a relationship. You can easily lose some respect from them when you do this. And what's worse, women have friends...sometimes even cuter friends. Would you really want one girl to tell 5 other cute girls that you're a stalker?

Dora? Come on SON!

STOP posting bathroom pics with your shirt off. Unless you're a professional body builder, professional model, or fitness trainer, no one really cares about your body. Even if you're in shape and got a six pack, all that really shows is that the only thing you have to offer is a body and nothing more. Women have dudes throwing themselves at them EVERYDAY. What makes you think your body is any better then the next guy who's also got muscles?  Honestly if you want to impress women with your body, you kinda have to trick them with your clothes (refer back to the "Do's")  and show them that you have more to offer then just a body. Women secretly love mystery. Remember they like to use their imaginations.

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MEN: The Do's, Don't's & STOP's of Facebook part 2 of 3

The Don't's 

DON'T post comments or status updates with bad language. Using the N-word and Mother F'n this or that...It's not a good look. Women don't like hearing that. Keep that between you and your boys. I'm not saying you gotta change who you are, I'm just saying that if you're wondering why girls are not responding to your advances the way you would like, this may be a reason why.

DON'T post pics of yourself smokin', being drunk, or of you hanging out looking like a bum. You don't want women to know you're a bum BEFORE you even get to talk to them. You're killing your own game right there. At least take a picture at your job so they know you have one.


DON'T stalk these women...openly. There's nothing wrong with being a far away admirer. DON'T go poking them, sending them random messages as if you know them, or adding them as a friend without talking to them first. If you want to get their attention then refer back to the "Do's" that I mentioned before.

Oh and DON'T brag about how big you are "down there". Most girls seriously don't care. Women love to use their imaginations. If you say you're big (7 inches)then  they'll imagine (9inches). So guess what?... now you're small to them. DON'T put yourself in that trap.

DON'T show off your money, cars or shoes. At this point you have to ask yourself, who exactly are you trying to impress? Women...or other guys? If it's women, unless you looking for a gold digger, they're not gonna care. Most women can take care of themselves, so things like that don't really impress them. This ain't the 90's and music videos are not always real. If you are trying to impress other guys...well... I guess everyone has their "preferences".



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MEN: The Do's, Don't's & STOP's of Facebook part 1 of 3

Alright fellas,

Let's have a little chat. So you're surfin' on facebook, and you're lookin at your news feed and see that a cutie just changed her profile pic. So of course you're going to click on it. Then...WAIT! who is that in her friend list?!...(Click)...Well now we gotta go through her pics to see if she's the real deal or not. Okay so now what do you do or don't do to get her to notice you? Should you send her a message? Poke her? Hit the "Like" button? Well let's find out.

The Do's

Post up some information that she'll like to hear. Your religious views, what movies you like, and even what books you like to read. (You may have to actually read some books for that part.) Why is that important? It gives you personality without you even having to say anything. It helps create an image of you in her mind that can actually do some of the "work" for you.

Think before you post

Another thing is to post good quality status updates. Post intellectual comments or questions. Or if the "smart guy" isn't your thing then post something funny. Please make sure that it's something everyone will find funny too. If you're not funny or smart, post something spiritual. A lot of women love a God fearing or spiritual  man. Shows you at least have some type of solid foundation.

To complete the whole image, make sure you post a sensible picture of yourself. If you are the "funny guy" post up a funny picture that will make everyone laugh. If you're the "cool guy" then post a pic of yourself dressed in your club attire to show how well you can dress. Women love a well dressed man. If you're the "muscle guy" then wear clothes that HINT that you have muscles. There's actually another great picture to upgrade your image but unfortunately since some women are probably reading this as well, I'm not going to give away all of our ammo :)

Lastly, if you do talk to them, be nice. Introduce yourself since you probably don't know them. Ask questions about them that are not obvious. Look at their profile, see what their interests are. DO your homework! Once you have an idea of who she is, or what's she's about, actually try and get to know her. And take your time when you speak to them. You're not going to get to know her, online, in a day. Say hello here and there. Comment on her status updates. Let her get to know you indirectly before you try and make your move.

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Ladies: The Do's, Don't's & STOP's of Facebook pt 3 of 3

The STOP IT's

Now here's my biggest gripe. STOP posting status updates about how single you are...Or how you would like to go out on a date...Or how you can't find any good men out there...OR how much you enjoy sex! I mean COME ON. These are all seriously desperate calls for help! And why are you puttin' all your business out there like that in the first place? Yes, I know there are other crazy things you all post like cursing other females out and stuff like that...but hopefully by now it should be common sense that you need to be aware of what you post because you never who is reading your information...like your job for example. Anyway back to the topic, in my observations I've noticed that this desperation may come from two different perspectives. You are either:

Couldn't buy attention if it were on sale

Gets more than enough attention

1.) desperate for attention because you're not getting enough of it already

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or

2.) You're not getting any attention at all 

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This is "Everyone"

Now if you're okay with either one of these ideas, then hey, do you. I won't judge at all, but just STOP. From a man's perspective, you have now just lost a little bit of value in our eyes. When you do this, you're broadcasting to the world that you want to be chased. What's wrong with that you may ask? You'll have EVERYONE chasing you, which isn't as good of a thing as you may think at first. If you are going to be chased, wouldn't you want to be chased down by the "Mr Right's" and not the "Mr. I'll take whatever I can get"?

 It's all about the chase ladies. Guys love to chase. We love to "hunt". Keep us guessing. Playing hard to get,to a certain degree, really does work. If you make us work, then your value actually goes up in our minds. In other words, we start to respect you more so than before.

Last thing...STOP posting up pictures just so that you can get comments on them. We don't need to see EVERY single club picture. Matter of fact, STOP asking people to comment on your pics. Damn...can we say conceited?  We get it already. You're cute, or you have a nice body, or whatever asset you think is so hot that you have to broadcast it to the world. WE GET IT.

Wal-Mart?...Seriously? 

Sexy? Yes.  Needed? No!

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Ladies: The Do's, Don't's & STOP's of Facebook pt 2 of 3

 The Don't's 

If you are single, and you are actually "on the market", then DON'T post that you're single! Even if this is a true fact and you just want to let the world know, I'm telling you, there's no need to post it. I know what you're thinking, "I don't see what the big deal is. I really am single." It really isn't a "big deal", it's just something that can work to your advantage by not posting it. Remember that you can hide that relationship status. Guys will ask about your status if they're interested in you regardless.

Not showing your relationship status will create some mystery or intrigue about you. Guys will have to approach you differently. They'll actually have to think before they talk to you because they'll be treading into unknown territory. If you post that you're single, then in their minds they're gonna group you in the same category as every other single woman. And I'm sure that most of you ladies are probably already tired of how most guys approach single women. This will hopefully keep them on their toes. Often times it's hard to know what the opposite sex is thinking. So the other purpose of this blog is just to give you some insight in the mind of some men. So if you don't understand it. Cool. You can take my advice with a grain of salt if you wish. (Fellas may not like that I'm sharing this info with you all too). 

DON'T hide what you really look like. If you're a big girl, and trust me there is NOTHING wrong with some meat on your bones, then just embrace it and show it...tastefully of course. You are what you are. DON'T post pictures of your self from 3 years ago just because that's when you were a size 4 or whatever. You're lying to the world and well...to yourself to a certain extent. If a guy checks out your page, do you want him to fall for the girl of 3 years ago or the you of today? DON'T live a lie. Show full body pics, not just face pics. If you're beautiful on the inside then you're beautiful on the outside. That's not cliche'...it's just true. Guys can actually sense a woman's confidence. We're simple thinkers.The way you think about yourself will paint the picture for us. If you're confident, and carry yourself accordingly, then we'll see that. If you're insecure about your appearance and try to hide it, then we'll notice that too. Don't get what I'm talking about? Think about a guy you know who's bald. Would you pay more attention to his head if he showed off his baldness and didn't care, or if he wore a hat all day trying to hide it?

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Ladies: The Do's, Don't's & STOP's of Facebook pt.1 of 3

Hello Ladies, (in a deep sexy voice)

I wanted to take this moment to address something that has been on my mind for a while. As I surf the net and look at some of the social networks like Facebook, I'm noticing a few continuous trends. It's just so weird how people have no idea about the implications of what they post on facebook. Now I'm gonna start off with women first. Most of the information will be directed to women who are trying to attract a man on Facebook. (Yes people do use Facebook for dating even if they don't know it) So this doesn't concern ALL women, but you know who you are, or who I'm talking about when you read this. Obviously I'm not a woman, so I can't even act like I know what's going on behind it all, but what I can do is at least come up with some objective assumptions based on my observations.

 The DO:  "In a Relationship"

From talking with a lot of my female friends, I understand that often times the relationship status is used as a "defense" against all those thirsty guys out there. And you know what, it works. Usually, and I use that term loosely, you'll be able to keep away a good amount of guys if they notice that you're in a relationship. Matter of fact, it's more effective if you list that you're "in a relationship with (fill in name)....". Oh and changing your profile pic to you and your guy will be even better too.

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HELP! Need a New Computer? Part 4 of 4

$ave $ome Money

Want to save even more money? Want to save more than just $5 dollars? Of course you do. So get ready for the final shocker...You've gotta spend some money to save some more money. Buy the accidental warranty coverage! Now you may say, "But the warranty costs almost as much as the computer"...WRONG again...well kinda. The warranty maybe another $300 but guess what? The average computer may need some type of repair after about 2 years. All computers only come with a 1 year LIMITED Manufacturer warranty that does NOT cover accidents or physical damage. I've repaired even $300-400 laptops before, and I can tell you right now that the warranty will pay off the following repair costs:

Bad Charger-> $100

Bad Memory - $100

Broken Hard drive-> $120

Bad Battery -> $140

Broken screen -> $400-500

Motherboard -> $500-700

Imagine having to pay for these things in only one year. You'll end up spending more money if you have you to go out and just buy another computer. So just get the warranty. Please. I beg you. When something goes wrong, which typically happens, you'll be very grateful that you got it. Also remember that No computer company will ever cover anything software related like (My windows or Mac Operating system crashed, or viruses)

Basic Check list and my recommendations:

1.) Check Screen size and weight
2.) Be comfortable with the look and feel
3.) Get at minimum an Intel i3 or i5 processor
4.) About 350-500 GB of hard drive space (that's a lot if you don't download stuff)
5.) About 2-3 GB of memory
6.) Buy the accidental warranty coverage
7.) Look for the computers in the $550-699 price range to really get something that will last.
8.) Anti-Virus protection (See my "I Got BURNED: Virus Protection" )