MEN: The Do's, Don't's & STOP's of Facebook part 3 of 3

The STOP's 

STOP putting up pictures with your middle finger up. That's the most pointless picture anyone could ever put up. If you wanna stick it to all your "haters" then go up to the upper right hand corner of your page, Click on Account Settings, and click on Deactive your account so that they won't have anything to hate on anymore.

PLEASE STOP talking to women who are in relationships! Now it's one thing if you ask respectfully if they're still in a relationship. But stop bugging them if they are clearly in a relationship. You can easily lose some respect from them when you do this. And what's worse, women have friends...sometimes even cuter friends. Would you really want one girl to tell 5 other cute girls that you're a stalker?

Dora? Come on SON!

STOP posting bathroom pics with your shirt off. Unless you're a professional body builder, professional model, or fitness trainer, no one really cares about your body. Even if you're in shape and got a six pack, all that really shows is that the only thing you have to offer is a body and nothing more. Women have dudes throwing themselves at them EVERYDAY. What makes you think your body is any better then the next guy who's also got muscles?  Honestly if you want to impress women with your body, you kinda have to trick them with your clothes (refer back to the "Do's")  and show them that you have more to offer then just a body. Women secretly love mystery. Remember they like to use their imaginations.

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MEN: The Do's, Don't's & STOP's of Facebook part 2 of 3

The Don't's 

DON'T post comments or status updates with bad language. Using the N-word and Mother F'n this or that...It's not a good look. Women don't like hearing that. Keep that between you and your boys. I'm not saying you gotta change who you are, I'm just saying that if you're wondering why girls are not responding to your advances the way you would like, this may be a reason why.

DON'T post pics of yourself smokin', being drunk, or of you hanging out looking like a bum. You don't want women to know you're a bum BEFORE you even get to talk to them. You're killing your own game right there. At least take a picture at your job so they know you have one.


DON'T stalk these women...openly. There's nothing wrong with being a far away admirer. DON'T go poking them, sending them random messages as if you know them, or adding them as a friend without talking to them first. If you want to get their attention then refer back to the "Do's" that I mentioned before.

Oh and DON'T brag about how big you are "down there". Most girls seriously don't care. Women love to use their imaginations. If you say you're big (7 inches)then  they'll imagine (9inches). So guess what?... now you're small to them. DON'T put yourself in that trap.

DON'T show off your money, cars or shoes. At this point you have to ask yourself, who exactly are you trying to impress? Women...or other guys? If it's women, unless you looking for a gold digger, they're not gonna care. Most women can take care of themselves, so things like that don't really impress them. This ain't the 90's and music videos are not always real. If you are trying to impress other guys...well... I guess everyone has their "preferences".



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MEN: The Do's, Don't's & STOP's of Facebook part 1 of 3

Alright fellas,

Let's have a little chat. So you're surfin' on facebook, and you're lookin at your news feed and see that a cutie just changed her profile pic. So of course you're going to click on it. Then...WAIT! who is that in her friend list?!...(Click)...Well now we gotta go through her pics to see if she's the real deal or not. Okay so now what do you do or don't do to get her to notice you? Should you send her a message? Poke her? Hit the "Like" button? Well let's find out.

The Do's

Post up some information that she'll like to hear. Your religious views, what movies you like, and even what books you like to read. (You may have to actually read some books for that part.) Why is that important? It gives you personality without you even having to say anything. It helps create an image of you in her mind that can actually do some of the "work" for you.

Think before you post

Another thing is to post good quality status updates. Post intellectual comments or questions. Or if the "smart guy" isn't your thing then post something funny. Please make sure that it's something everyone will find funny too. If you're not funny or smart, post something spiritual. A lot of women love a God fearing or spiritual  man. Shows you at least have some type of solid foundation.

To complete the whole image, make sure you post a sensible picture of yourself. If you are the "funny guy" post up a funny picture that will make everyone laugh. If you're the "cool guy" then post a pic of yourself dressed in your club attire to show how well you can dress. Women love a well dressed man. If you're the "muscle guy" then wear clothes that HINT that you have muscles. There's actually another great picture to upgrade your image but unfortunately since some women are probably reading this as well, I'm not going to give away all of our ammo :)

Lastly, if you do talk to them, be nice. Introduce yourself since you probably don't know them. Ask questions about them that are not obvious. Look at their profile, see what their interests are. DO your homework! Once you have an idea of who she is, or what's she's about, actually try and get to know her. And take your time when you speak to them. You're not going to get to know her, online, in a day. Say hello here and there. Comment on her status updates. Let her get to know you indirectly before you try and make your move.

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